"The concept of punishment"

The concept of punishment is one of the methods that many families resort to in the process of finding solutions to the problems they experience with their children, but it is not an effective method.

For example; A child is drawing the table at home, and the family, who is disturbed by this situation, tells him that he cannot go to the park to punish the child. There is no connection between this behavior of the child and the punishment given by the family. This attitude may increase the child's aggression towards the family instead of extinguishing the behavior.

However, this child of the family; He should explain why he should not scratch the seats, give him a task in the process of cleaning the seats, and if the child displays the same behavior again, he should cut off his relationship with the paints for a while. In this way, the child takes responsibility for his behavior. At the same time, we can see that there is a sanction rather than punishment in this example and that there is a relationship between sanction and behavior.